
By the title of my post, I know that many of you have faced the same problem and started to wonder if you were somehow written into the books by
Laura Numeroff.
Our problem started on Thursday night. My older son was asleep, I had the beginning symptoms of the flu, my husband was trying to sleep on the couch, so I could get a better night sleep, and the only person in the house at 11:30 pm who was not asleep was my 4 year old.
And these were his requests -
"I want to sleep next to Mommy" (Sorry, you can't Mommy is sick)
"No, I want to"
"Bring me my pillow" (My husband got his pillow from his bed)
"No, I want a pillow from the guest bedroom" (I got up and got a pillow from the guest bedroom)
"No, I want a brown one" referring to the fancy sham pillows (No, you can't have those, pick another one, so I leave the guest bedroom)
"I want the brown one" (My husband gets another pillow from the guest bedroom, this time my 4 year old throws it down)
No, I want Mommy to get me one"
At this point, I did not want to get up, but for 1/2 hour, my 4 year old screamed in my ear saying "before the sun comes up"
So I finally got up, a got a pillow from the guest bedroom, and yes, the brown fancy sham pillow and yes, he slept next to me with all my flu germs.
That night I thought - how did it get so out of hand? Not only did he sleep on our bed, but he got what he wanted which we never wanted to let him have, and on top of that, all his ridiculous requests were filled.
I really started feeling like the boy who gives the mouse a cookie - the requests just don't stop and they become more crazier by the minute. Should we have just spanked him? Let him scream it out? Honestly, we don't have a plan, because we try to never let it get this bad.